Grateful vs Thankful: Do You Know The Difference? (Answered) (2023)

Is there a big difference between being grateful vs thankful? With the current rise in the popularity of gratitude journals and concepts like thankfulness, I feel like this question is getting more important every day. However, it is also quite a difficult question to answer.

What's the difference between grateful vs. thankful? The definitions have a great deal of overlap, but the general difference is pretty simple. You are grateful for something a person does for you. When someone does something nice for you, you can be grateful. Being thankful also applies to this scenario, but can also be applied for being thankful in general. Not just when a person is involved.

However, a much more important question is how can we apply both these concepts in order to better our lives? This is a much more interesting question that I want to answer straight away while we're on the topic.

But first, let's get back to the grateful vs thankful issue!


  • Definition of being grateful vs being thankful
  • Overlap between being grateful and being thankful
  • When do you say that you're grateful?
  • When do you say you're thankful?
  • Why it doesn't matter all that much
  • Examples of being grateful
    • Say thank you to your family
    • Keep a gratitude journal
    • Smile to a complete stranger and give a compliment
    • Think for a moment to look back on your happy memories
    • Laugh about something silly
    • Go out for a run/walk and just focus on being outside
    • Think about how happy you are and what positively influences your happiness the most
  • Wrapping up

Let's cut right to the chase: the definitions of being grateful vs thankful have a great deal of overlap. But the general difference is pretty simple.

You are grateful for something a person does for you. When someone does something nice for you, you can be grateful. Being thankful also applies to this scenario, but can also be applied for being thankful in general. Not just when a person is involved.

Anyway,there's a lot more to these terms which I want to talk about. Knowing the difference between being grateful and being thankful is great and all. But learning more about how to apply these concepts is so much more important!

Why? Because practicing gratitude is correlated to happiness, both scientifically and anecdotally (as I explain in this detailed post)! 😉

But first, Iwant to show you the exact definitions of being grateful vs thankful first.

Definition of being grateful vs being thankful

Let’s take a look at what the dictionary says about these 2 concepts. I'm not a scholar or master of the English language, so I just Googled the two terms. You can do exactly the same thing yourself!I trust that Google is pretty smart at this, and they've provided me with the definitions straight away!

On the one hand, you have the definition of being "Grateful":

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And on the other hand, there’s the definition for being "Thankful":

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Overlap between being grateful and being thankful

You can see how there’s a lot of overlap here, right?

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Google shows it: being thankful is a synonym for being grateful, and being grateful is a synonym for being thankful.

They both share a similar meaning.

That doesn't mean that they can be used interchangeably all the time. Sure, they can often be swapped with each other and the meaning would still be exactly the same. But in some scenarios it's better to use "Grateful" and in others, it's best to use "Thankful".

When do you say that you're grateful?

Have a look at the definition of being grateful: "feeling or showing an appreciation for something done or received".

What strikes me here is that gratefulness is applied when something is done for you, or given to you. This almost always means that another person - or a group of people - has personally given or done something for you.

In this scenario, you would normally say that you're grateful.

Sure, you could also say that you're thankful. But according to definitions, the term grateful is better suited in this scenario!

When do you say you're thankful?

Being thankful is pretty much well-used in every other possible scenario.

The definition of being thankful supports this: "being pleased and relieved" or "expressing gratitude and relief".

You can see that the definition of being thankful is a lot broader than the definition of being grateful. It shows that being grateful has a smaller application, and that beingthankful can be used in a much broader sense.

They're still both synonyms though. I highly doubt that anyone will ever question your use of the words.

And that brings me to my next point:

Why it doesn't matter all that much

Nobody will ever correct you for using grateful instead of thankful or vice versa.

It simply doesn't matter all that much. In fact, definitions across the web of the two words (especially grateful / gratitude) vary wildly. For example, a lot of people keep a gratitude journal, and they fill it with all the things they are thankful for. Surely, these gratitude journals are not just limited to things that other people have done for you. It could be filled with literally anything that you're thankful for.

And that's what I want to focus on here.

This article is not so much an explanation of what is the exact difference between the two.

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What's much more important to me - and hopefully to you as well - is the question of how you can apply both these concepts in order to be a better person! It turns out that practicing gratitude is a great factor for happiness. Therefore, it's one of the things I wrote about in my big guide about how to be happy.

Examples of being grateful

I want to show you actionable ways to show gratitude in your life that you can use right away. (or thankfulness, gratefulness, whatever you want to call it, I think we covered how much these terms can be interchangeable by now! 😉 )

Some awesome ways for you to show gratitude today are:

Say thank you to your family

Think about it: who has done more for you than your parents, your brothers, and sisters, or your grandparents? If I were to answer that question personally, I wouldn't be able to tell you!

You see, the people who raised you worked very hard to get you to where you are right now. And that is something to be very grateful for. One easy way for you to show that gratitude is to say thank you. You'd be amazed at how much happiness those two words can cause!

Keep a gratitude journal

This is probably one example of gratitude you've heard before. Probably because keeping a gratitude journal is something that is becoming more and more popular each day.

Even Oprah keeps a gratitude journal!

A gratitude journal is a place where you can record specific things or events that you are grateful for. This allows you to consider just exactly what you should be happy about. The positive effects on your happiness have been supported by a lot of studies on the subject.

If you want to be grateful, then a gratitude journal is one of the best places to start! Here's an article I wrote explaining why, when, and how you can start journaling!

Smile to a complete stranger and give a compliment

This one might seem a little strange.

How is smiling to a complete stranger an example of being grateful?

To me it's easy. You see, I strongly believe in the concept of "paying it forward". If you smile at a stranger, there's a good chance that your smile will radiate. If you can spread your happiness to others like this, then you are literally making the world a better place.

Smiling to a complete stranger can help you - and others - see that we still live in a world that's filled with happiness.

Being able to smile at a complete stranger (and getting a friendly smile in return) is a great way to realize that there is still a lot of happiness on this planet. And that brings me to the topic of being grateful.

Being able to send a little bit of happiness to a total stranger is something to be grateful for!

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Think for a moment to look back on your happy memories

Instead of being grateful for the things that are currently happening in your life, you can also be grateful for things that happened a long time ago!

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Thinking about happy memories is a great method of being grateful.

I try to remember my happy memories a lot. I even try to take it one step further: I write down my memories in something that I call a memory journal. This is where a make sure I never forget my happy memories.

This not only allows me to be grateful for those memories, they simultaneously put a smile on my face and keep me from ever forgetting those memories.

This memory journal - and all of the happy memories in it - will be with me for the rest of my life.

Laugh about something silly

Laughter is often taken for granted. Yet there are a lot of people that go on for days without any form of laughter whatsoever.

Remind yourself of something very silly each day. Something that you have seen or heard before - something funny - that always makes you laugh.

Laughter is one of the simplest but most powerful tools to achieve happiness. And it's surprisingly easy to accomplish. Just think of that silly joke or memory and allow yourself to laugh for a minute.

The next step is to be grateful for that laughter.

This video below usually does the trick for me. Can you see what I mean with silly? It doesn't matter what exactly cracks you up, as long as it gets the job done. 😉

Go out for a run/walk and just focus on being outside

Are you able to go outside and go for a walk at this very moment?

If yes, then what's stopping you?

  • Rain? Take an umbrella!
  • Feeling tired? Being outside will likely give you a boost of mental energy!

Seriously, if you can I highly advise you to go for a walk right now!

Because it's a perfect moment to step out of your busy and constantly moving life. Being out in the open will allow you to exit your little bubble of work-life-commute-goals-targets-repeat.

Just forget about all the things you need to do and leave your office or home.

It'll allow you to fully clear your mind and to focus on what's actually around you: the outdoor.

And that is something to be very grateful for! Yet, we somehow live in a world where being outside to just do nothing is considered a sin. People are constantly living from one goal or to-do list item to the other while forgettingabout how simple life is actually supposed to be.

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Just take a moment to exit that bubble of stress, and be grateful for the world that we're living in.

Think about how happy you are and what positively influences your happiness the most

The last method I want to discuss ofhow you can practice being grateful is to start tracking your happiness every day.

Tracking happiness is basically an advanced form of journaling, which is based on the idea of rating your happiness each and every day.

This means that you get to think back about every single thing that positively influenced your happiness at the end of each day. My free template includes a journaling section, which I use for writing about whatever happened during the day. This also includes the things that I am grateful for.

Not only is this a great method for practicing gratitude, but it's also a great way to increase your self-awareness.In addition, you get to find exactly what factors in your life have the biggest positive influence on your happiness.

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Wrapping up

So we now know the difference between being grateful vs being thankful. But we also know how small that difference really is, and how it likely won't evermatter.

I hope I have opened your eyes to actionable methods to practice being grateful and thankful right away. And remember, making a conscious effort to being grateful and thankful will have a positive effect on not just your happiness, but on the rest of the world as well!

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Is there a difference between thankful and grateful? ›

Where thankfulness is an emotion, gratitude is an attitude of appreciation under any circumstance. Gratitude involves being thankful, but it is more than that. Gratitude means expressing thankfulness and being appreciative of life daily even when nothing exciting happens.

How do you use thankful and grateful in a sentence? ›

Grateful sentence: I am grateful for your help, Peter. Thankful sentence: I am thankful Peter helped me.

What should I reply when someone says grateful? ›

Ways of accepting someone's thanks - thesaurus
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  • no problem. phrase. ...
  • not at all. phrase. ...
  • don't mention it. phrase. ...
  • it's no bother. phrase. ...
  • (it's) my pleasure. phrase. ...
  • it's/that's all right. phrase. ...
  • it's nothing/think nothing of it. phrase.

Why do we need to be grateful or be thankful? ›

Gratitude helps people feel more positive emotions, relish good experiences, improve their health, deal with adversity, and build strong relationships.

What is another word for thankful or grateful? ›

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What is the true meaning of grateful? ›

warmly or deeply appreciative of kindness or benefits received; thankful: I am grateful to you for your help. expressing or actuated by gratitude: a grateful letter.

What are 10 examples of being thankful? ›

We've listed a few for you here:
  • Holidays with family (or friends)
  • A good meal.
  • A comfy couch or chair.
  • Thank you notes.
  • Your favorite Thanksgiving side dish.
  • Freedom of Religion.
  • Working with your hands.
  • Unconditional love.
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Is it correct to say grateful? ›

We'll do you a solid and tell you that “grateful” is the correct word and greatful is actually a common misspelling. Grateful has its word origins in Latin gratus, which means 'for thanks'.

What is grateful example? ›

Examples Of Gratitude

Being thankful to the person who cooked for you. Being thankful for your good health. Appreciating the person who cleans your house. Acknowledging your junior at work for taking the initiative to ease your workload.

How do you reply to someone thanking you for a gift you gave to her? ›

Responding to Thank You for a Gift
  • a special gift for a special person.
  • enjoy it, with my compliments.
  • happy to share.
  • I hope you enjoy using it.
  • I knew you'd like it.
  • I wanted you to have it.
  • I'm so glad you like the gift.
  • it's just a small token.

What are 5 benefits of being grateful? ›

Studies show that gratitude can:
  • improve sleep quality.
  • improve emotional regulation.
  • increase feelings of happiness and positive mood.
  • foster hope for the future.
  • reduce stress, burnout, and symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
  • increase resilience.
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What are 5 reasons you should be grateful for? ›

Let's see why being thankful in all things helps you.
  • Better Relationships. Are you in a tough relationship that seems to be going nowhere? ...
  • Better Health. ...
  • Better Career and Business. ...
  • Better Finances. ...
  • More Love.

Why should we be thankful for our life? ›

A study found that regularly and deliberately recording one's blessings improves our mental health and physical well-being. Additional research shows that being thankful opens the doors to more relationships, improves your sleep, and boosts your self-esteem.

Can grateful and thankful be used in the same sentence? ›

There's no law that says you can't be grateful and thankful at the same time. You can feel thankful for something AND express your gratitude to someone for giving you something or making something happen. It's not a question of choosing between the two but rather how to practice both at the same time.

How do you use Thankful? ›

  1. thankful (to do something) I was thankful to see they'd all arrived safely.
  2. thankful for something He wasn't badly hurt—that's something to be thankful for.
  3. She was thankful for the darkness which allowed her to slip away unnoticed.
  4. thankful (that)… I was thankful that he hadn't been hurt.

What is another way to say I am grateful? ›

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12 things we should be grateful for every day
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Deep Things to Be Thankful For

I am thankful that today is probably not the worst day in my life. I am thankful to have had love, even if I lost it. I am thankful for the hard times because they will help me appreciate the good times. I am thankful for failure because it makes me stronger.

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  • Your health and wellbeing.
  • The opportunity to have an education.
  • Food on the table.
  • Your favorite song.
  • Hot showers.
  • The internet.
  • Having a job and/or income.

What are 3 things you are grateful for today? ›

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  • Having something to eat. ...
  • Kindness of strangers. ...
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Can I say I am forever grateful? ›

I am forever grateful to him for that. I'll be forever grateful to him for what we managed to achieve. I will be forever grateful to the club. I'm forever grateful for your existence and my femininity exudes because of you.

How do you feel thankful? ›

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  1. Notice good things, look for them, appreciate them.
  2. Savor, absorb, and really pay attention to those good things.
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  • of 50. Big, crazy, loud dinners with the whole family. ...
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  • of 50. Fall foliage. ...
  • of 50. The ability to let an old grudge go. ...
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Gift thank you
  1. Thank you for the incredible gift.
  2. I am very grateful for your generous gift.
  3. I appreciate the special gift you've given me.
  4. Thanks for the thoughtful gift.
  5. That was very sweet of you to think of me. ...
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  7. I love the gift you gave me.
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Simple Thanks
  1. “You're the best.”
  2. “I'm humbled and grateful.”
  3. “You knocked me off my feet!”
  4. “My heart is still smiling.”
  5. “Your thoughtfulness is a gift I will always treasure.”
  6. “Sometimes the simplest things mean the most.”
  7. “The banana bread was fabulous. You made my day.”
  8. “I'm touched beyond words.”
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When someone doesn't say thank you for a gift? ›

Express your displeasure at not being thanked for the gift.

If the person confirms they received the gift, you may tell them simply and honestly that you were surprised and disappointed you didn't get a “thank you” for the gift. Explain how it made you feel to not get a thank you and be honest about your feelings.

Is gratitude and thankfulness the same in the Bible? ›

According to the Bible, thankfulness is not only one of the many ways to serve God but one of the most important. We ought to express inward gratitude, a deep internal feeling, outwardly through thanksgiving. Giving thanks is seen as an act of the spirit that responds to the much deeper sense of gratefulness.

What does the Bible says about being grateful? ›

"Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." "This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." "And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful."

What is another word for being grateful? ›

I am extremely obliged to you. I am deeply indebted to him for his help. We are very appreciative of their support. He was beholden to Eddie for financing the project.

Which word is closest to the meaning of grateful? ›

obliged, thankful, indebted, beholden. in the sense of beholden.

What did Jesus say about thankfulness? ›

Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever.” “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

What are the 3 types of gratitude? ›

Some psychologists further categorize three types of gratitude: gratitude as an “affective trait” (one's overall tendency to have a grateful disposi- tion), a mood (daily fluctuations in overall grati- tude), and an emotion (a more temporary feeling of gratitude that one may feel after receiving a gift or a favor from ...

Why is gratitude so important to God? ›

Gratitude helps us see God.

There's a beautiful cycle in giving God thanks: the more we thank Him, the more we see Him working in us and around us. Gratitude helps us sense God's presence, His personal care and His perfect timing.

Does God command us to be grateful? ›

Our Father in Heaven commands us to be thankful in all things (see 1 Thessalonians 5:18), and He requires that we give thanks for the blessings we receive (see D&C 46:32). We know that all of His commandments are intended to make us happy, and we also know that to break commandments leads to misery.

Is grateful a positive word? ›

Gratitude is one of many positive emotions. It's about focusing on what's good in our lives and being thankful for the things we have. Gratitude is pausing to notice and appreciate the things that we often take for granted, like having a place to live, food, clean water, friends, family, even computer access.

What is the opposite of being grateful? ›

(ungrateful) Opposite of feeling or showing an appreciation for something done or received. ungrateful. inappreciative. ingrate. thankless.


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